Hi my name is Brenda everyone calls me BJ. I had my accident in 1993. I was out on a beautiful Sunday morning. I was going to take a trail ride on one of my horses. She was young but pretty easy to ride. I was an avid rider teaching others to ride and jump their horses. I was very good at jumping and i won many awards to prove that. I am not real sure what happened the day of the accident. My memory has been erased. I had to learn to walk talk read and write. My husband walked out of the hospital after I spent two months in a coma. He divorced me. Live is very difficult now. I've lost most of my memory. I also have ran mall seizures and terrible headaches. Somehow I have to learn to live with this new me. I could use advice or help from anyone out there that understands.