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This was orginally written for a company newsletter to breakdown some walls for me. My story is current, and about me though written about somebody else! Be encouraged! WILD HARRY'S ADVENTURES What a great time we ve had helping people have a good/relaxing time! We've made some neat friends, and had fun doing all of this! You've met and learned to deal with all types of people. You've met and worked with a guy who has been very fun to be with. He seems to have an attitude that can be so optimistic and positive it is fun to be around him. You ask yourself, "How in the world can that guy be so happy always? Well this is his story of hope. He was a very talented guy who had it made. A great career started, a new car, a great skier and tons of friends. He was extremely intelligent, had plenty of girlfriends, but things were never good enough. He had started doing drugs at a very early age trying to fill a hole that he didn t even know was there. By the time he had finished eighth grade, he already smoked weed regularly, taken uppers, downers, and even LSD. The guy smoked cigarettes and he drank whenever he had the chance. In high school he did PCP then, in college, he was still doing drugs only now he discovered cocaine. But something was missing inside. He thought it was cool being with all the pretty girls but that just made him lonely. What was he looking for? On March 2, 1985, he was out with a good friend drinking and using cocaine. He was driving home to the condo he lived in with his aerobic instructor girlfriend. Her sister and brother-in-law had come for the weekend. What was he even doing out? How big was that hole? While driving through the intersection at Armstrong and Olive, A pick-up hit the right side of his of S-10 Blazer. The impact threw him out through the right rear window! Nobody is sure how long he was on the road. What they do know is that a man stopped, went to phone help, and when he had returned, the guy had been run over by another car! He spent thirty-one days in a coma. He was on a heart and lung machine, being fed through his nose and breathing by a machine with a tube through his neck. The guy had a massive head injury. His brain had been damaged. His brain was unable to keep his body alive. He was only a body being kept alive by machines. His mom never left the hospital and his friends, who he could never pay back, didn t either. VMC (Valley Medical Center now University Medical) emptied the waiting room and then lined the floor with mattresses so his friends so could sleep. People in comas can hear. Hearing is the last sense to leave us. They ask people not to speak of bad things when visiting because of this. His brother said that he would come in and talk about things he did to really upset his brother when they were young. His family knew that his brother could hear him when he did this because his brother s heart rate on the monitor would skyrocket! He says he had some powerful dreams. One dream from what he was hearing, and one dream that he believes he was given a choice. First, he was lying on an operating table surrounded by doctors and nurses. The doctor was explaining to everyone what had happened and how he was hurt. The last thing the doctor said was, "It is all up to him." Then, he said he was walking down a dirt road with wheat for as far as you could see on all sides. He was going home to see his girlfriend and to get better. He had a purpose. He came upon a handsome man leaning on a rake or shovel or something, waving him back. He thinks that if he had been alone he would have gone back. A very strange thing was happening, he said that he was never alone. He says that he played that scene through his mind a million times, that man was leaning on a sickle. He had been given a choice. Life was going to be hard. He was hurt very badly and he knew it. He could have given up, but he says he kept going and didn't even look back. He says that was because he wasn t alone! He never felt alone the whole time! He spent month at club VMC on a heart and lung machine to teach his brain to regulate them again. Then he was transferred to Community Hospital. He began his rehabilitation there. He had to relearn absolutely everything like to walk, to talk, to eat, to care for himself, where he lived, who people were in his life, everything you could think of. After the hospital, he was in rehabilitation five days a week, 8:30 - 4:00, for ten months of neurological retraining. He had already learned in the hospital how to take care of himself, this part of his recovery dealt with his being able to think, reason, and compute things with enough speed to use in real life. He had to learn how to feel and express emotions again, and to interact with others. He had speech therapy, physical therapy, cognitive retraining, and vocational therapy. He says these were his options, give 100 percent every day or be handicapped. It really wasn't a choice at all. The guy gave his absolute best every day. Now that he's out in the real world, he says there is no reason in the world not to give life his very best! You'll see that he does just that. When he left CSUF in 1983, his grade point average was 1.9. Big deal! He didn't think he needed good grades. He was good, but in his heart he didn t feel like he was worth anything. His ego made him so proud and nothing he did could satisfy the need is his heart. After rehab, he told his therapists that he was going back to CSUF to finish his degree. His therapists all told him, People that hurt their heads like you don't do things like go to school." His grade point average to finish his degree was a hard fought 3.3! He has finished his Masters Degree in Cross-Cultural Teaching Education and his Multi-Subject California Teaching Credential with a GPA of 3.6 and is looking for a job teaching in Kindergarten or 1st grade! Before he hurt his brain, he had an I.Q. of 168. He was extremely gifted but really had no idea of how absolutely gifted he was. After rehab, he applied to an organization named MENSA. An organization you get into by your I.Q. being in the top 2% of the people in the world. He needed an I.Q. score of 158. He didn t make it, he now has an I.Q. of 130. His psychologist said that an average I.Q. is between 90-110! He says that he struggles to fit in and he says the people here (his co-workers and the guests including the kids) at Wild Water have helped him a great deal. People think that because he walks and talks differently there is something wrong with him...NOT! He tells us that the world wants to tell him he s disabled and he says that s fine; he gets the best parking spaces! To celebrate his accident every year, he made a lofty goal for himself that has been such an awesome experience that he does it every year now, he runs the Los Angeles Marathon! 2001 was his ninth time! The marathon is a great time. He met and ran with Garret Morris of Saturday Night Live, he met John Tesh, he met and corresponds with Dr. Bill Burke, the president of the marathon. He s met Danelle Folda, Tylyn John, Charlotte Kemp, and Pamela Bryant, Playboy centerfolds of the Playboy Running Team. He met Pat Connelly, coach of the USC cross-country team. He s ridden his bicycle to Sequoia/Kings Canyon National Parks, to Yosemite a couple of times, and from Cambria to Solvang five times. He does biathlons, step classes, and has even learned to Rollerblade! He says triathlons are the final frontier! He says that a career for him has been a struggle. He didn t know where he was supposed to be until he started substitute teaching! He says that he gets to help kids to become the best they can be, and that he gets paid for that! Right now, he has just finished his Masters in Cross-Cultural Teaching and is now looking for a permanent teaching position! He says that the most amazing thing he does is sing in the choir at Northwest Church at 8:00, 9:30, and 11:00! Where he sings praises to Jesus Christ, his Lord, Savior, Guide and Friend. His brain goes like the speed of light but the part of his brain that modulates how fast he thinks and how fast he talks has been damaged. Singing is at a metered pace and helps him speak at a gentler pace! Life is difficult for him that moving his body to walk, run and to speak for him now is a conscience effort. That it s not a natural function any longer. He say that he just keeps trying still after all this time. He says that he doesn t care for any other option! He clings to Jesus his only real hope. He says that he doesn't understand all about Jesus, he says he believes who Jesus is and hopes in Him. Now, like in his coma he says he doesn't see Him, but he knows he's not alone. He was dead, but now is more alive now than he ever could have imagined! He says that everyone needs to repent or change their ways. He says that he couldn't have changed if he wanted to but that God can change a person if the person is willing! After what he has seen and experienced, he believes that there is something the Lord wants him here for! He says to believe in Jesus' death and resurrection, and believe in the Gospel of Jesus Christ because His Kingdom is coming soon! The love we all are looking for he says is found nowhere else but in Jesus! He says that every runner wants to run a marathon, every bachelor wants to meet a Playboy Bunny (he s never been married), and everyone on earth wants to be able to sing! The Lord has given this guy his wildest dreams! El habla Espanol tambien! Que Espanol es una lingua muy romantica! El dices que gente en el mundo piensen Frances es la lingua de amore. El dices lo es Espanol! He wishes that everyone could have the same experience with Jesus without the trauma! He says that we all have that hole in our hearts that only Jesus can fill. That Jesus wants to fill that hole for us no matter what we ve done or how we ve been, He wants to fill that hole with Himself but will never impose Himself on you! He waits for us to ask Him in. Many years ago the guy says he did ask Him into his heart and when he was walking in the wheat field in the dream, he wasn t alone because the Lord was carrying him ! That he was His forever! Praise the Lord! The guy says that he never would have understood unless this had all happened! He believes that he couldn t have organized all this if he wanted, that this is all too amazing, too coincidental, and too gigantic! The guy now knows that the Creator of the universe lives in his heart and when God the Father looks at the guy, He sees only His Son! Amazing that He wants to live in everyone s heart but is a gentleman and will not invade our space unless we ask Him in! He says that all that has happened to him wasn t for his benefit but for God s Glory! That he has been blessed to show the Father s Glory! He functions on a level far above average but parts of his brain are dead! This happened so that everyone will see the remarkable Grace and Power of God! He says that he will continue to look to Jesus out of a heart of incredible gratitude! That when one realizes and see what has happened on our behalf, you ll fall on your knees in adoration and gratitude to Jesus! If you see him smiling all the time, happy to be alive, you'll now know why. We've had a lot of fun this summer, thanks! WILD HARRY'S CORNER O' WISDOM Work like everything depends on you and pray like it all depends on the Lord! Then give life your best effort and watch what He can do with you! Life isn't about what you can get. When a person dies, nobody remembers what a person has, they remember what one gave! Life is about giving! If you have any questions, would like to talk with Harry about this or would be interested in Harry speaking for your group/organization, he can be reached at harwee3@sbcglobal.net or at his fun, single guy, address at hunkmuffin4u@hotmail.com.