Well im not sure how to start this but i'll do my best and explain to the best way i know how..First of all i was a single mother of 4 lovely boys and divorced from thier daddy as he had court order visit and let me tell you how that worked out for us ..

One summer day he had his ordered visit and came to pick up the children and as normal they were happy and playing when he came.as the night wore they were all fast to sleep and down the for nite as they got up saturday morning they all got ready for what they had a soccor game.. and lucky they won their game W2G BOYS,,after the game dad had a few drinks as he was playin golf with the guys and needless to say the lady friend he had in his life at that point in time was not a happy camper..as the 2 of them starting fighting with the children around to see their father decided to leave and take the boys with him ,well they never made it to where he was going at the time except into a 10 foot ditch thats right a 10 foot ditch and that nite was the beginnin of my new live with the boys

Ryan and Erick are not tbi and ryan is listed a castrophic and Erick has mild brain injury..Ryan was in a coma for 3 months and the hospital for 4.5 months and today he has a left sided tremor that limits him to very little as he is also in a wheelchair,, we lost ryan that nite and as they were cuttin him from the car it was 45 minutes as they were having differculties and we lost him again and that time was what done him into the coma..im thankful ryan is here today as i love him more then ever he fought to be where he is today and im so proud of him either way ,, he will not be the young man every mother dreams of but he is here...Ryan has along road ahead of him and we take it day by day as for erick he will come along jsut fine with the right support we have working with him and im also proud of him to and of course i have to say this my Aaron is very specail as he went for help for his brothers and today i tell him that im so proud of you aaron to be able to help your brothers cuz if he never woke when he did his little brothers wouldn;t be here today..

Ryan was a 3 level when he arrived at the childrens hospital by flight and today he is a level 5 to 7 but like i said thats fine with me we work and do our best and thats all i can ask for

Today im happy to say i met a wonderful man that is very good with the boys and was happy and eager to help me and we married in august2006..and as for dad court order visits were kissed goodbye as that was the last straw for him....

to end this story i want to tell you how justice worked for me and the boys> first i lost my happy go lucky boys and then i lost my home becuz i couldn;t bring ryan home to that place as for saftey reasons and then i lost my job what else could help well i will fill you in the court realy didn;t care they gave their father 3 months and thats what justice is all about ..
Sucks doesn't it

Lyn
and thank you for taking the time to read my story

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