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Richard A Shaffer

I'm Rick, a 57-year old man. In 1949, I was riding in the back seat of a "suicide door" Plymouth and the right rear door was ajar. My mother was driving and my aunt Dottie was up front riding with her. I was 6 years old and it was summertime. I remember asking my mother if I could make the door close. She said "no". I did it anyway, as the rattling of the door was bothering me. The next thing I can remember is that I was lying in a gravel ditch at the side of the road. The car had been going about 35 mph, I am told. I had landed on my head and neck. I remember being put in the back seat of the car and recall that there was blood everywhere. (Head injuries tend to be bloody). Moving ahead, I had suffered a severe open skull fracture. I spent a few days in Tacoma (Washington) General Hospital.

There were no apparent residuals from this event up until I entered puberty. I was a very smart little kid. At puberty, something happened, and I started to have all kinds of mental processing problems. It was hard to understand things, my short term memory started to fail. I nearly didn't graduate from high school. I have had two failed marriages, and now live alone. I crave the respite of peace and quiet. I am a good piano player, and am active in my church. I have held a low-end clerking job with a government agency for nearly 8 years now, and I have become satisfied with my life. My supervisors are aware of my many difficulties and don't place heavy "performance" demands on me. I like the people I work with and they like me. I think my biggest problem these days is that of logic. I have difficulty understanding jokes. Or following directions. I am easily overwhelmed by things. Comprehension is another difficulty. I am grateful the accident didn't produce more problems than it did. It is painful to watch those around me at work get promoted and move up in the office, while I stay at the bottom. But God is good! It could have been infinitely worse than it was!

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