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Wayne Keelty

Before the collision(BC), my wife and I had just finished dinner with another couple and were calling it quits for the night. We were driving home and stopping at a stop sign. A teenager with a few drinks in him came around the corner in a car twice the size of mine and hit my car head on. The lady in the back seat of my car was killed instantly, her husband received most of the messed up body I did except for the TBI. My wife was mostly conscious through it all. I woke up a few months later in a hospital.

Some people from a rehabilitation institute came to interview me. I was screwed up enough so that they took me away. Along the line I had relearned speech, chewing, swallowing, etc. After a few months up there they sent me home for outpatient treatment. I was on the cusp of TBI recognition and rehabilitation. Unfortunately I was on the wrong side of the wave. Most of my problems were recognized, but went untreated because there was no treatment for them accessible to me.

At that point, I was a head injured individual who slept a lot. I had a very short attention span, no short term memory and regressed about 20 years to a teenage maturity level. My right side was crippled, the speech slurred, I had double (but tunnel) vision and couldn't ambulate without help. At least I had a job and a loving environment. I still had trouble chewing gum and walking but I was improving slowly.

Here we are years later. After multiple surgeries there is one good(?) limb. Some surgeries have changed leg length, from a short left leg and a crippled right leg, to a longer left leg and a semi-crippled right leg. The physical problems are endless but better than the alternative. I am now out of work on disability and trying to adjust to retirement. I'm trying volunteering at a nearby hospital. If they can figure out what I can do, I'll do it. I just got used to being a cripple, now I have to adjust to being a geezer too.